Xzavier Davis-Bilbo at a benefit for the X-Man Foundation with his dad and the Pantherdice team

Mayor Tom Barrett of Milwaukee – Proclamation for October 11, 2014 is ‘Xzavier Day!’

Xzavier Davis-Bilbo with mom Spokeswoman Valetta Bradford and sister Aurie Parris and the rest of his family

The mother of Xzavier Davis-Bilbo was contacted by the Mayor’s office to pick which day she would like to be ‘Xzavier’s Day’ and Valetta has unselfishly chosen October 11th for ‘Xzavier Day’ so that she might share the celebration with you.

Join them in Milwaukee, WI for ‘Xzavier Day’ and meet Xzavier and his family.

We realize that not everyone will be able to go to Milwaukee for this celebration so we are asking for volunteers to host Skype In Sessions for the Big Day.

We are also asking for volunteers to help us get the word out about Xzavier’s campaign

‘Don’t text for X’.

We are also asking other cities to join in on the celebrations and also to participate in the ‘Walk for Awareness’ an event that Valetta Bradford has hosted every year on or near the anniversary of Xzavier’s injuries.  If we can get Mayor Tom Barrett to agree to proclaim October 11th will be ‘Xzavier Day’ here on out we will change the name of the walk permanently to ‘Xzavier Day’.

God bless all you drivers and keep your eyes on the roads because the other drivers might be texting.

Donate to the X-Man Foundation so that ‘Xzavier Day’ will be the best day we can possibly make for Xzavier.




We need 100K signatures for our petition to the White House to be recognized.

Follow this link to sign our petition;


Our petition is asking for Xzavier Davis-Bilbo and his mother Valetta Bradford to be invited to the next function for children at the White House so they can get national recognition for their campaign against distracted drivers.  So far the reins of this campaign against Distracted Drivers are in the hands of those companies providing the phones.

That is not enough.  The government needs to sponsor this campaign and really get behind a woman who deserves a Pullitzer for her ability to see the big picture in all of this when her own son is suffering the consequences of a distracted driver.  Millions are killed every year at the hands of people trying to use cell phones while behind the wheel.

Xzavier survived for a reason.  Let’s get him to the White House so he can tell us about it.

Follow this link to sign our petition;


Swearing while Driving

There’s a reason road rage exists, Distracted Driving.  I don’t think anyone gets behind the wheel and decides to cause a collision and yet everyday people die or they get off lucky with just damage to those vehicles that take up a huge chunk of salary to buy and maintain.  Well, that’s why we have insurance isn’t it?

Okay,  I didn’t create this system.  I look into the future when cars fly but nobody gets hurt because they are flown by computers.  There are people right now working on this.  Meet George Jetson.

In the meantime, there are people right now trying to fix the system we have and we have it ready or not.  Not, we are not ready for the technology that we have now because it is a FACT that people die because of our technology and driving vehicles and trying to fiddle with a hand held device at the same time.  You will see these people today while you are out there driving.  The latest news report I heard when Mayor Leffington of Austin, Texas announced that Austin is ready to Take the Pledge, ‘It can Wait’ is that OVER ONE POINT THREE MILLION DIE FROM COLLISIONS CAUSED BY DRIVERS USING CELL PHONES EVERY YEAR.

Eventually it will kill someone you know or you.  We are all in this together.  Let me get all New Age on you right now, WE ARE ALL CONNECTED.  If we share the road, we are connected.

Valetta Bradford is an amazing woman.  Her hometown is Milwaukee, WI.  I am from Texas and being from Texas,  I want to hear about her son being avenged for his serious injuries.  He is paralyzed from the diaphragm down and he lost his left lung.  This means he has to be in a wheelchair and on a respirator and that respirator has to be suctioned periodically.  Both Xzavier and his mom Valetta have to suffer through the suctioning.  I had to go out in my back forty and scream for a hot minute over this situation and I am not even kidding.  I was so affected by the Public Service Announcement that introduced me to them, I snapped off the TV.  I never wanted to hear about this ever again, I couldn’t believe the horror coming through my TV and it wasn’t Supernatural or American Horror Story, it was a real live kid, a five year old kid.

Xavier, Xjavier, Xzavier Davis-Bilbo before he was paralyzed by a distracted driver who was texting instead of watching the road.Xzavier Dais-Bilbo was paralyzed from the diaphragm down because of a text from a distracted driver.

Valetta has chosen the path of Spokeswoman against Distracted Driving.

Her son is the Poster Child of Distracted Driving and she takes care of him in her home and when she goes out she often takes him in a broken down wheelchair accessible van and they visit colleges and driving schools and speak locally in Milwaukee, WI.  She and he are saving lives because I am sure to meet them is a profound moment in anyone’s life.  I hope to meet them someday and if it means I have to travel out of my beloved Texas then so be it.  Maybe we can all agree to meet up with them next October for the Annual Awareness Walk in Milwaukee that was rained out this year.  This is actually my goal.  There is a great need for someone trustworthy to get up there and help this family. Valetta explained to me that a family in Milwaukee was helping them out and then they dropped out of sight.  Later a friend of Valetta’s found out this family was still raising money in Xzavier’s name and keeping it.

I don’t know how that story has turned out but these things happen and I am glad that Valetta is being careful now.  All of these websites I made direct the readers to contact Valetta directly and I will never solicit money to my office.  I donate my time and resources and when I have a spare dollar I send it over to her to her post office box and you should too.  I am only one person and the reason I make these websites is to promote this family, if I were rich I would see to their every need, but I’m not and neither are you probably.  But together if we all donate regularly to Valetta’s campaign she can become nationally recognized and we are helping hold up her son as an example for people to stop texting while driving.  This needs to be done.

Valetta Bradford
PO Box 06061
Milwaukee, WI 53206

Friend Valetta on Facebook


 You can also donate in person at any Educator’s Credit Union nationwide.  Be sure you are donating to the X-Man Foundation in care of Valetta Bradford.

Halloween for Xzavier and Family

You may have heard, the Third Annual Rally for Awareness was rained out and turned into a family get together.  Valetta tried to sound up beat about this, but I know she was disappointed she didn’t raise the money for a new wheelchair accessible van for Xzavier.  It’s not running too good and Xzavier always hits his head on the ceiling coming and going.

I asked Valetta if she has plans for Halloween but she hasn’t gotten back to me on that.  I hope you enjoy these Halloween pictures from Halloween pasts.



Tomorrow’s Rally for Awareness

Tomorrow in Milwaukee, WI.  on Saturday, October 12, 2013 at one p.m.  Valetta Bradford is hosting the Third Annual Rally for Awareness.  You can meet X, they call him X, and sister Aurie Parris and mother Spokeswoman Valetta Bradford on the corner of North and 10th Streets, the very corner where Xzavier received his injuries from a distracted driver because this driver couldn’t be bothered to watch for pedestrians in a school zone.  She was texting.  Sister Aurie didn’t see her coming because this driver had crossed into the on-coming lane when she tore Xzavier’s hand from Aurie’s.

Well, that is what is behind them.

Valetta Bradford is a Spokeswoman against Distracted Driving after a distracted driver paralyzes son.

Valetta has taken a different path that the one perhaps I or you would have taken.  She sees the big picture in all of this and Valetta takes excellent care of her children and she takes excellent care of you too.

‘Don’t text for X’

Valetta Bradford
PO Box 06061
Milwaukee, WI 53206

Friend Valetta on Facebook


If you friend Valetta and you want to donate to the care of Xzavier or the campaign against Distracted Driving,  you have to tell her.  She is set up to receive donations through her personal email through PayPal.  You can also donate in person at any Educator’s Credit Union nationwide.  Be sure you are donating to the X-Man Foundation in care of Valetta Bradford.

They made it to Hollywood!!

PhotoPhoto: Getting ready for this flight to cali

Valetta shared pictures from Hollywood.  Tomorrow August 8, 2013 is the premiere of the documentary by Werner Herzog.  He has tackled many tough assignments like ‘Dreams of Caves’ and AIDS in Africa.




He even ate a shoe.  Look him up on Wiki.  It’s amazing what one can accomplish in one life.  I haven’t seen it yet,  but I am sure we are all in good hands.


Good morning ya’ll,

I was up late last night and so was Valetta.  She shared on facebook that she and X are in a documentary against distracted driving and they have been invited to Hollywood for the red carpet event.

There isn’t any money in their budget or Valetta’s to make this happen so I think we should make it happen.  After all that Xzavier has lost, like his left lung and his legs, he deserves the royal treatment and he is a ROCK STAR!

I shall be working with Valetta this morning to get her set up to take donations through her email with PayPal and all of the major credit cards.

I love you all,

That Lady down in Texas

Message for Valetta


My heart goes out to you and all that you’ve been through and will be going through.  This is a long road for you and you are approaching it with strength and resolve to do your best for your son.

In your videos you exhibit such poise.

Frankly I don’t know how you set aside time for the PSA’s what with all the extra work that has been added to your life.

So I wanted to lend you a hand.  I’m down here in Texas so obviously I can’t come over and wash dishes and do a load of laundry for you,  so I am making these websites.

I want X-man to have a strong presence on the world-wide web.  I used your images (without your permission because I am a stranger,  I don’t know how to contact you).

So when word reaches you about these websites I will do whatever you tell me to do with them.  You may accept them or reject them.

They are yours and I really hope you like them.

All my love ,

That Lady down in Texas



For Xzavier Davis-Bilbo


You came here because like me,  you feel something should be done for the family of Xzaver Davis-Bilbo.

I’m glad you’re here.

What I found out from endless google searching is once the Pantherdise folks held a benefit for Xzavier to get a wheelchair accessible van.

No follow-up was found on whether or not this was accomplished.

I am of the opinion that this family has too much to do just to care for X-man’s everyday living needs to have to worry about money.

And I also want them to receive so much money that they can build a nice home in the country far away from distracted drivers and that dreaded  corner that took X-man’s future into a restricted zone.

Each caretaker can have their own suite,  that’s for the family members and a couple of suites for the professionals that the family can hire to help out every day if we pay.

Only responsible minded people will contribute.  Unlike the woman who caused these injuries.  As far as I know she is hiding under a rock.

She’s probably on drugs by now.  She only had to pay a hundred and fifty dollar fine,  so she’s out there driving around looking for another kid to mow down.

It could be yours.

I’m just saying.

I want things to change so badly.  I want the cell phones disabled when they are in motion over five miles an hour.

But I don’t know how to accomplish this.

I do know how to ask for money for a worthy cause.  I got involved a week ago because I couldn’t find anywhere to donate to X-man after I saw the Public Service Announcement that Valetta Bradford and her son Xzavier Davis-Bilbo released.

The first search netted a mispelled name.  People are so careless with grammar and spelling as well as driving and yes,  that irritates me also.

So thank you for pledging.  It will take me a while to build this net for X-man.  I want him to have a strong presence on the world-wide web and all the websites will lead to a donation page that is solely under the control of Valetta Bradford,  X-man’s mother.

She is a real classy lady.   You should look at a few of her clips,  that aren’t properly promoted but I will be adding them all to here.

Follow this blog so you will know the minute that Valetta takes over control of these websites.

Please take a moment now to send your best wishes to X-man and pledge what you want to give when she gets a donate button.

Thank you.